On Veterans Day š
The words below are from a dear friend, a veteran, in a conversation we had yesterday:
I went to lunch with my stepdad (a Navy vet) and my mom. We were trying to put into words the shared experience of armed service. At the end, we concluded that itās impossible to tell someone who says āThanks for your serviceā that the burden of serving is the feeling that you enlisted as a patriot, but separated as a slave.
I was talking to him about Veterans Dayāfor him, as someone who has dedicated years of his life to military service, and for me, a civilian horrified with the way heās been treated by the government. Veterans Day is tough for me. It sanitizes war and vivifies our military industrial complex.
Our military recruits very young adults, ships them off to ostensibly sovereign nations on spurious pretenses to suffer unspeakable trauma, and fails to help integrate them back into civilian life, work, and good health.
Our military abuses people. Iām not talking Abu Ghraib, Iām talking the rank and file. Immigrant interpretersāwho provide do-or-literally-die services overseasāare denied visas once theyāre back in the States. Veterans are 1.5x more likely to die by suicide than Americans who never served in the military (for women veterans, the risk is 2.2x).Ā
Forget ISIS and al Qaeda: suicide is the #1 killer of US troops. And this is just the horror inflicted on our citizens, to say nothing of trauma inflicted upon our global family and the Earth herself.
Like anybody with a beating heart and working brain in America, Iām horrified by Trumpās betrayal of the Kurds. (Veterans, by the way, are their most vociferous defenders). I was disgusted by Obamaās drone campaigns in Pakistanātruly, a secret warāwhich is one of the biggest stains on his legacy.
War games happen when we forget that war is not a game. When we cheapen patriotism to flags and songs and parades and discounts at the movies on Tuesdays.
I am the granddaughter of veterans, a friend of veterans, but the sister of every living thing. To me, Veterans Day is often full of vacuous jingoism. We can do better. Am I asking too much nuance of a holiday? No. We had it once beforeāand we had it on November 11th.
More tomorrow.
āIn the long run, the oppressor is also a victim. In the short run (and so far, human history has consisted only of short runs), the victims, themselves desperate and tainted with the culture that oppresses them, turn on other victims. ā Howard Zinn
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